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Carving out a place and a name for yourself, to leave a legacy, is never easy. This is particularly true for us childless, who will leave no descendants behind when we go. We either find ourselves trying to be content with the knowledge that we’ll be forgotten somewhat easier than most; or we have to be much more intentional and deliberate about leaving our legacy. I perhaps feel this a little more keenly than most, for two reasons. Keep Reading... )

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One of Atlanta’s more venerable institutions, Atlanta Medical Center, closed down today amidst a huge public outcry. Accusations have been flying and finger-pointing is happening in all directions; the political implications are significant. There’s no doubt that many in the community are upset. That said, a closer look at the situation leaves me scratching my head. Despite claims, this situation has been developing for years; and further, the hospital really wasn’t providing that much of a public service anymore.

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I had a Twitter exchange with Father Dwight Longenecker recently, in response to his article about how, exactly, we Catholics should go about bringing diversity, equity and inclusion into our parishes. That “how” question is extremely valid and completely on point: all the talk in the world won’t address the issues. We Catholics need to actually do something to make the Church on Earth more welcoming.

My Tweeted response was simply an enumeration of the Corporal Works of Mercy. In response, Fr. Longenecker asked if I’d actually read his blog post, and I confirmed that I had. I will admit that my initial short intent was to be a bit lighthearted, within the bounds of 140 characters, but there was a definite point behind my response. I wasn’t attempting to be “gimmicky.”

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Are we ready for an end to employer-sponsored group health insurance?

Mike Markland, the CEO of an employee benefits consulting firm, certainly thinks so. In a recent viewpoint piece written for Employee Benefit News, he opined that employers that “want to attract talent in this new world will need to offer individual choice of health insurance the same way they now need to offer remote work.” He believes this so strongly, in fact, that the primary focus of his consulting involves showing employers how, exactly, to accomplish this; and in his opinion piece, he presents the idea as something cutting-edge and new.

While his presentation is good, experienced benefits professionals will easily recognize that this is far from a new idea. It has been tried before, more than once. It didn’t work then, and — unfortunately — it’s not going to work now. It’s going to be tried again in the future sometime, and it should be, because hopefully someday we will see an extinction of the dinosaur that is employer-sponsored group health. But we’re not to that point yet. Neither employers nor employees are ready.

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In a now-deleted post, I announced that while I still support the premise and idea behind National Novel Writing Month (also known as NaNoWriMo), and while I still support many of their original initiatives, I’m no longer going to be participating. A quick Google search indicates that I’m far from alone in making the decision to dissociate myself in recent years, but doing so left me with a dilemma: what else could I do to keep myself accountable for writing every day?

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Bill McKibben’s liberal use of humor in The Only Way to Have a Cow disarms the reader and suggests a friendly-but-informative approach about vegetarian eating. Unfortunately, beyond appeals to emotion and worn-out clichés, he doesn’t deliver on the promise of that humor: instead, the essay is a trivial addition to the ongoing debate. Worse, his approach makes assumptions about a reader’s background that may or may not actually be correct. Ultimately, in terms of calories, this essay is like sugar candy: delightful, but empty.

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I have not had a particularly good week this week, mostly (but not completely) because of physical ailments. On Saturday the 22nd, I still was having respiratory symptoms; just going outside for an hour to help look for an escaped cat left me winded and exhausted for the rest of the day. Sunday was even worse, and it was accompanied by fevers. I ended up not going into work on Monday, Tuesday or Wednesday although I did attempt to work from home.

But by Thursday morning, I was feeling better enough to go in to the office for the day and I had a really productive one. It exhausted me, though, so I spent most of yesterday resting. I’m feeling better again today, though, which is a good sign, and I’m planning on taking the opportunity the weekend offers me to take it slow and easy. With luck, I’ll be able to return to my regular routine again this week — and that will return me to more serious work on the goals.

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With Parents & Siblings

Will & Catherine with Parents and Siblings
January 26, 2019

Happy anniversary to us! We were married on January 26, 2019, in Greensboro, North Carolina. Although both of us lived in the Atlanta metro at the time, we chose to get married there so that our parents and siblings could attend, and we were also joined by some special friends.

There are days I think, “has it only been three years? It sure feels as though it were longer.” On other days I think, “wow, has it really been three years already? That sure went quickly!” I’m pretty sure that dichotomy means things are going well overall.

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In March of 2020, when the CARES Act was passed, most people were focused on pay protections, primarily since they included sole proprietorships, a category that covers most so-called “gig workers.” A lot of its provisions also went into effect relatively quickly. But there was another provision in that act and the associated FFCRA that might have been missed, because it wasn’t about pay and it wasn’t effective until just this past Saturday.

Under that provision — which, at the time, I suspect many people, Congress included, may have hoped would not need to become an issue — health insurers are now required to cover over-the-counter COVID-19 tests without any sort of cost share. However, it’s not as easy as going down to the local pharmacy, showing your insurance card, and getting a test for free. There are some requirements that are involved.

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The second week of 2022 has certainly had its ups and downs, and my goal work has reflected that. I did end up going back to work this week, but I was only able to manage two days in-person, although I was able to work the other three from home. My bout with COVID-19 is not quite over, despite the fact that I’ve been officially asymptomatic. It seems that my tendency toward extremely long recoveries from respiratory diseases is definitely still in place.

I also had a rather personally painful experience as a result of the online reactions to the very poorly reported comments by Pope Francis on January 5th. Fortunately, though, I was able to go to Adoration the day after it happened, and my experience there was much better than usual. It helped me work my way through it mentally and come to a resolution about my feelings and how I intend to react (or, more properly, not react).

There are also some significant wins in the goals work, too, even if they’re not as much as I’d hoped for. Today is a day I’m having to remind myself that sometimes, any win counts.

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This isn’t the post I thought I was going to write.

I thought I was going to write about Pope Francis’ tone deafness with respect to his January 5th general address and its comments about pets versus children. But when I dug deeper, it turned out that the entire situation was little more than manufactured outrage and upset.

It’s understandable why this might have happened. The media did, after all, do a very good job of putting sound bites into their ledes:

Pope Francis has criticized couples who choose to have pets instead of children as selfish, arguing that their decision to forgo parenthood leads to a loss of “humanity” and is a detriment to civilization. [CNN]

In a move likely to raise the hackles of millions of cats, dogs and their human cohabitees [sic], Pope Francis has suggested that couples who prefer pets to children are selfish. [The Guardian]

Pope Francis said that people who adopt pets instead of children were exhibiting a “form of selfishness” as he presided over his first general audience of the new year. [NBC]

Pope Francis criticized individuals who opt for having pets instead of children, saying that a “denial of fatherhood or motherhood diminishes us.” [USA Today]

Based on these four sentences, it seems clear that the leader of the world’s Catholics was stating that couples who don’t have children are selfish to the point of possibly not even being human. The ledes do vaguely suggest that he may only have been talking about voluntarily childfree couples instead of involuntarily childless couples, but it’s not clear enough to be certain. The only thing that was relatively certain was that the comment was, as The Guardian noted, bound to upset a lot of people.

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One of the lesser-known provisions of the Consolidated Appropriations Act of 2021 is stricter disclosure requirements for group health plan broker commissions. On the surface, this seems like a great idea, especially in light of documents such as the oft-cited 2019 ProPublica/NPR report about broker compensation. What employer wouldn’t want to save more on healthcare costs by making sure that their broker isn’t making too much money off of them?

After reading the report, though, I’m left with more questions and concerns than I am with answers.

The report itself admits that its data is incomplete, stating that the investigating journalist only queried ten broker agencies, none of whom answered his questions. This makes almost no sense to me, considering that as of mid-2021, industry statistics showed 1.2 million insurance brokers in the United States — and even that figure omits the huge number of brokers who, like myself, work as independent contractors. Anyone with any level of statistical knowledge understands that this means the sample size was far too small.

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Yesterday completed week #1 of the new year, and it was a bit of a strange one. At the beginning of the week, I was still very much feeling the lingering effects of my bout with COVID-19 that happened during the last week of 2021. By the end of the week, I was asymptomatic except for a very occasional cough and roughening of my voice.

In the meantime, though, I worked from home the entire week — I usually only do this one or two days in the week — and have otherwise completely isolated myself. I haven’t actually left the house since December 26th, unless you count going out to the mailbox or pulling the trash bin to the curb. This has left me with more than a little bit of cabin fever, and it certainly hasn’t helped the routine.

That said, it wasn’t a bad week. Keep Reading... )

Welcome

Jan. 6th, 2022 02:00 pm
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Welcome to Second Row, a place for Catholic women who are orthodox and faithful but who don’t quite fit the “mold” of the normal Catholic lifestyle. We may be single career women who never met the right person; we may be converts or reverts who have a not-so-savory past; we may even be lesbians who are choosing to live consistent with the teachings on chastity and celibacy. We might be widows with grown children; or married but childless and done with fertility treatments; or even just the sole Catholic amidst a family of non-Catholics.

Whoever we are, we’re working out our relationships with God and the Church as best we can; but we often feel invisible and excluded simply because there are so few of us and our parishes don’t have the resources to minister to such a small population. While we recognize that, it doesn’t cure the loneliness that comes at times or help us find our place within the parish and the Church.

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Welcome

Jan. 4th, 2022 10:00 am
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Welcome to Radius!

I’ve worked in the field of employee benefits since 1999: first in human resources offices in both government and private industry; and then on the broker side focusing on small businesses. During that time, I’ve seen a clear need for better consumer education. That’s what this blog is all about: providing a resource for benefits information, using clear language that anyone — regardless of their level of expertise or experience — can read and understand.

Topics on the blog will include all aspects of employee benefits; while the focus will be primarily on health & welfare benefits, other topics such as total compensation and retirement benefits will occasionally be covered. Keep Reading... )

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Happy New Year! 2022 has already started out fairly decently in my world, in that both Will and I woke up this morning with clear indications that we’re getting toward the end of our respective bouts of COVID-19. Our vitals are mostly back to normal, and aside of still being quite tired we’re both starting to feel that way too. We’re taking the rest of the weekend to let our bodies finish their recoveries on their own times, instead of attempting to force schedules onto them.

In the meantime, though, it’s still New Year’s Day and that means it’s a time for goal setting. I actually wrote most of these out this past October and have been fine-tuning them since then. I’m going to be using this blog as a way of keeping myself accountable, because if I can meet these goals this year, then I’ll be well on my way toward finishing my larger overall plan of self-improvement between now and the time I reach the half-century mark. So, without further ado, here’s the list of goals I will be working on:

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It was a long, long weekend for me as I was busy trying to redo the organization and URLs of my web site. Unfortunately, it took me three days (and a combined six hours on the Chat feature) with my web host* to figure out that they don’t support WP Multisite. Since I’m talking about a small personal site here, I couldn’t justify the cost of a developer or even upgraded hosting options that including some customized SSL solutions.

Fortunately, I stumbled onto Infinite WP yesterday night. Keep Reading... )

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I’ve spent parts of this weekend revamping and updating my web site, which is now located at https://collingwest.com. Unfortunately, at the moment I have run into a snag with WordPress Multisite. I have a ticket in with my web host and they’ve promised an email as soon as they get it figured out, but until then I’m not able to move forward with setting up the sub-sites.

One thing I’m not prevented from moving forward with, though, is writing content since I do that primarily offline. That, then, is what I’ll focus on until I get the snag untangled. Watch this space for more!

Originally posted at https://collingwest.com/2021/site-re-setup-continues/.

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All Souls Mass, Mary Our Queen

All Souls Mass, November 2, 2021
Mary Our Queen Catholic Church

This past Tuesday night, Will and I attended the All Souls Mass at our parish, Mary Our Queen in Peachtree Corners. It was the first time I’ve attended a Solemn Mass in the Novus Ordo Missae form, including several prayers that were chanted in Latin, and it was absolutely beautiful. In fact, it was so ornate that I remembered thinking that I was glad we didn’t do these very often because that would make the beautiful into the familiar, and that’s not exactly a sentiment that you want to allow when it comes to attending Mass.

There’s a lot of talk about the Novus Ordo, also known as the Mass of Paul VI, comparing it with the older Tridentine Mass; unfortunately, a lot of the opinions tend to be negative. This has increased following the publication of a recent motu propio (official letter from the Pope) called Traditionis Custodes; in it, Pope Francis imposed new restrictions on the celebration of the Tridentine Mass. The online howl was heard worldwide, but interestingly enough, the majority of objections came from Western countries.

Living in a Western country myself means I often get asked why I attend the Novus Ordo, particularly given that there are two Tridentine Mass parishes in the Atlanta area, both of which are relatively convenient for me. St. Francis de Sales, which is in full communion with the Pope, is in Mableton; St. Michael, which is irregular but not fully schismatic, is in Roswell.

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Writing with a Purple Pen

Writing with a Purple Pen
Credit: Amanda Truscott via Pixabay

I’ve participated in National Novel Writing Month off and on since about 2001, albeit at different levels of involvement. I’ve always enjoyed it and have come to look forward to November when I can work on a fiction project. This year, though, I won’t be participating; and I don’t expect I’ll be doing so ever again.

Don’t misunderstand: I’m still going to do a November challenge every year, including this year. I’m just not going to formally affiliate with NaNoWriMo. When it first began, NaNo — and the now-defunct Office of Letters and Light — had many admirable goals, all related to writing. I was particularly supportive of the Young Writers Program, as well as associated the laptop loan program for classrooms.

But their recent foray into Diversity, Equity and Inclusion has left me out in the cold; and their explicit support of on-demand abortion has turned my opinion from ambiguous to negative. These forays into non-writing issues suggest a corporatization that detracts from the original intent and purpose of the project, in addition to (at least in one case) explicitly discriminating against me. At this point, after a lot of thought and prayer and not without some pain and regret, it’s time for me to bow out.

Wait a minute, you might be asking. What’s so awful about DEI, corporatization, and politics? Don’t you realize that everything is political? Keep Reading... )

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